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Amazing Dads for Amazing Girls………yeah!!!!!!!


I have great news!!! I’m not even sure what to start with.

Amazing Girl Party:

We had a party on Sunday, after quite a long time. It was dubbed Baby Party, and this was organized by the girls themselves. The very youngest of them, Rachel, is our Pastor, (smile), and was the leader of the meeting. She had made some very cute programs for each of us, and did a very good job moderating. We celebrated the birthday of my daughter, Hetal, who turned one on Thursday the 18th of August. They had some very special gifts for her, and I was ever so blown and grateful! We also learnt about modesty, and used the dictionary this time round to get the definition. It says…..QUOTE.

Amazing Dads for Amazing Girls:

Yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! In the past few months, have been writing to both girls and dads here on my website, and they (you) have been reading. I have received quite some responses on these, and been encouraged to know that other girls have had similar needs and are getting blessed, and that there are some wonderful dads out there who care about this and are willing to do something about it.

So I sat and thought, and it dawned on me that God has done many things in my life for a very special purpose indeed. From a dadless girl to a girl of many dads….it can only be for His own very special purpose. And perhaps the purpose is to share these dads with other girls. See, if He wanted me to have a dad just for me, He’d have given me one. But He has graced me with many. So I think it is His purpose and intention to dad other girls through me.

So, I asked my team of dads if they would do for other girls what they have done for me. And they said yes….a resounding yes!!!! I am so glad, so elated. I am happy to know that other girls can receive this special gift too. From the few I have had this conversation with, they would love it!!! I’m happy to blessed with the opportunity to meet girls’ needs.

So hey, here goes, girls. If you have ever wanted or needed a dad, a dad affirmation, encouragement…. Just fatherly love shown to you, write to me about it, and I will pass it on to the dads, and you sure will get a response. What I missed most was dad-daughter communication. I did not necessarily want it every day, but the once in a while communication would have done wonders. Especially if it was positive. And the positive ones I have received from my team of great, amazing dads has been awesome, or ausome!! as my baby sister would say it.

So what do you say, girls? You’re in for a treat! I look forward to hearing from you. Please not that no need is too small to express, to petty or too insignificant. You are very important, and all of you and your concerns are very, very, important too.

So let’s ride on to Amazing Experiences!!!

August 26, 2011 0

Dear Dads & Girls,

Hi! Here’s a note to all the dads and girls out there. I am glad to have you in my life, and I feel oh so honored for your contributions, in all ways. Dear girls, I am glad to know that what I write resonates with a need in your heart, and that I can…
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August 13, 2011 5

How girls need dads


See, this is a question that I have recently asked myself. You know, it can get really hard when you desire to have a dad, and none can be found around. Or it’s just not working out the way you’d like it to, the way you imagine it, the way you see it in other’s lives, or even on TV. (okay, far fetched I know but still….)

So sometimes, if the need was a computer program or file, you’d want to press shift+delete and whatever else you can, to kill the desire. But it just doesn’t go away. So what do you do? You think, you cry, you become sad….but most recently I got an idea. A brilliant idea, (I think).

How much really do I need a dad? Do I need one 24 hours a day 7 days a week? At my age, no. (I’m not 40 (smile) I’m not even 27 ) and honestly speaking, I don’t even talk t my mum every single day, so no, I don’t need a dad that much, so to say.

But I need one at the very core of things. A dad to assure me that I’m on the right path, and I’ve got what it takes to make it to my destination, to fulfill my purpose. To let me know that I’m alright, I’m beautiful, I’m charming and I’ve got a good personality. Okay, perhaps these are things that a girl should know for herself, but to be honest? They carry tonnes of weight when they originate from a father. Ask a girl who’s had one, or a girl who’s had a good brief stint (ok, brief relationship) with a good dad.

So why am I saying this? I’m saying this to represent the girls out there who need dads. A baby needs a dad or a parent round the clock, but a teenage girl and a young lady…those need a dad every so often, every now and then, some encouragement that they are alright, that they are precious little girls (all girls want to remain little all their lives – or at least to be called so (smile).)

I’m also saying these for the sake of the ladies who would think that a girl who needs a dad is out to get her husband. NO. NOT AT ALL. And for the kids who think that the “adopted” girls would come to take away their dads. Again, I repeat, NO, NOT AT ALL!!! We don’t want that much of him, no, just a little encouragement along the way.

August 3, 2011 0

Amazing Girl Dad Day

I’ve been thinking about this for a while now. To have the coming together of girls who need dads, and dads who are willing to care for these girls.

There would be sessions in which the girls and dads are addressed together, sessions in which each party airs their needs, thoughts, desires and challenges; both separately and then together, and hopefully climaxing with a wonderful dad-daughter time for those present.

What do you think about this?

Girls, would you like to have this? Dads, would you be there for these girls?

If you would like to participate in this by attending, or supporting in any other way, or

If you know of a girl who could use such a forum,

Or you know a dad who you would want to be a part of this, please email me their name and contacts, or text me the same on +254 723 285 236.

I look forward to hearing from you!!

August 1, 2011 2